Remember, sex is never a thing you just had. Sex is the intercourse, the merging or convergence, of who the two of you are–your spirits merging. People ask, “How was it for you?” The reply is often, “It was great.” But is this really the right question and answer? Instead, personalize your question and ask, “How are you?” Respond with depth. Gaze into each other’s eyes and speak your truth: “I’m over the moon, ” or “I love you, ” or “I melted and I’m just coming back into myself. .Alexandra Katehakis
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When people talk about the feeling that sex is an experience that they won't forget, this is what they are referring to. Sex is not just a physical act of penetration. It is an experience that combines the two people's feelings and thoughts into one big, beautiful whole. If you make love with someone, it is more than just a physical act.
It is an experience where you can feel your partner's feelings, hear their thoughts, and make one with them. A relationship is the most intimate thing anybody will ever have in their life; and when you make love, it will be special because it will be the only time you will ever know what it feels like to truly know another person and feel like you truly know yourself.
Source: Erotic Intelligence: Igniting Hot, Healthy Sex While In Recovery From Sex Addiction
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